Trendy ideas...

{from heidi & ty's wedding 6/5/09}


I am a big fan of "do what you want" on your wedding day and I am loving that brides today are taking that approach rather than the traditional 2 colors, all white, twin bridesmaids, tulle (don't get me started!), as well as any other non-traditional idea that is thought up. It's a little difficult for the older generation to see the new trends coming in and tradition going out. It's nice to have a little tradition, don't get me wrong ie. unity candle, garter & bouquet toss, the dances and speeches to name a few, but there are some things I am happy to see go... the dollar dance, TULLE :), traditional centerpieces - I love bold statements & colors and definitely happy to see the weird dresses everyone was forced to wear go! Oh the 90's. :)

Here are some new ideas that are becoming tradition over the past 5 years:

1. Let the bridesmaids choose their dresses and accessories in your color scheme.
2. Have fun things for your guests to do.
3. Choose colors that express you & do not limit yourself to just 2 - pick 5!!!
4. Let the groom express himself, chuck shoes, fedora hats - you get the idea.
5. Have a cool send off - my favorite... sparklers!
6. Realize it's not going to be PERFECT... your veil falling out at the alter is not going to ruin your wedding day... it makes for a great picture.
7. Stuffy traditional pictures were so last decade... choose someone that helps you look good and isn't just someone snapping pictures, they need to be an artist. There is no such thing as a non-photogenic person. What comes out on the camera is who you are!!
8. Choose a dress that is flattering to your body, not what everyone else is wearing. Girls with a big bust should NOT wear strapless gowns. This is where it's good to have small tatas! :)
9. Your wedding shouldn't be some production show... it's one of the happiest days in your life. Enjoy it.
10. Do whatever you think will reflect you. Be tasteful but definitely showcase who you and the love of your life are.